advice to unhappily married women (II)
I will now teach you how to cheat on your husbands in your imagination.
Make no mistake: only an ordinary woman really and truly cheats on her husband. Modesty is a sine qua non for sexual pleasure, and to yield to more than one man destroys modesty.
I grant that female inferiority requires the male species, but I think that each woman should limit herself to just one male, making him, if necessary, the centre of an expanding circle of imaginary males.
The best time for doing this is in the days immediately preceding menstruation.
Like so:
Picture your husband with a whiter body. If you’re good at this, you’ll feel his whiteness on top of you.
Refrain from excessively sensual gestures. Kiss the husband on top of your body and replace him in your imagination - remember the man who lies on top of you i n your soul.
The ssence of pleasure is in multiplication. Open your shutters to the Feline in you.
How to upset your husband…
It’s important that your husband gets angry now and then.
Learn to feel attracted to repulsive things without relaxing your outward discipline. The greatest inward unruliness combined with the greatest outward discipline makes for perfect sensuality. Every gesture that realizes a dream or desire unrealizes it in reality.
Substitution is less difficult than you think. By substitution I mean the practice of imagining an orgasm with man A while copulating with man B.
fernando pessoa
the book of disquiet
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